Help Your Kids Do Well in School
"My son is a smart kid, but he doesn't work hard in school. Now the teacher said he's in danger of getting F's in most of his subjects."
"My daughter just does enough to get by, instead of trying her best. When I talk to her about how important it is to get good grades in high school, she rolls her eyes and tells me she doesn't care and that it's boring. It's enough to make me pull my hair out."
The truth is, most kids are motivated, but not by what we think should motivate them..
Resolve to be involved in your children's education in new ways this year. Studies show that kids whose parents are involved in their education have better grades, a better attitude toward school, and more appropriate school behavior than those with less involved parents.
How do I get involved?
Getting involved in your child's education can be as simple as talking with your child each day about school and homework. Your involvement could also include:
- Visiting the classroom when you bring your child to school.
- Establishing a homework routine and providing your child with a good place to study — away from distractions like TV, video games, the phone, or loud music.
- Taking your child on trips, playing games together, and visiting the local library.
- Showing you value education by taking classes yourself or letting your child see you spending time reading.
- Attending school board meetings and getting involved with a parent-teacher organization.
- Reading to your child or have him read to you every day.
What should I do if my child isn't doing well in school?
Parents and teachers working together create the best environment for learning. If you are concerned about your child's progress:
- Contact your child's teacher; don't wait for the school to contact you.
- Meet or communicate with your child's teacher frequently until the problem is resolved.
- Ask for specific activities you can do at home with your child.
- Find out what's available to you at your school's parent resource center.
What if my child doesn't like school?
Lots of kids find school to be fun, stimulating, and a time to be with friends. But others experience a great deal of stress associated with school. To find out why your child seems unhappy with school:
- Talk with your child and listen carefully before you offer any solutions.
- Arrange for a conference with the teacher.
- Ask to observe your child in class.
- Talk with your school counselor about your child's feelings about school.
A good education is important for finding a good job and having a good future. It makes sense to help your child do well at school.
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